These numbers are alarming and very frightening. No one out there should think that the world is better off without them, or that no one loves them or cares for them.I know I can't change the minds of all the people that are feeling down, or that are wanting to self harm or commit suicide, but here is the number of the Suicide Prevention Hotline: (1-800-273-TALK) just in case there's anyone out there that stumbles upon this post, and needs it.
I don't think that suicide is an easy way out, or cowardly. I think that bullying is cowardly.. I will never understand for as long as I live why people want to hurt others so badly, or why it makes people feel good to bully others. I'm not saying I'm a saint and I've never judged anyone, but if I ever drove someone to self harm or kill themselves, I would be guilty for the rest of my life, and quite frankly, would probably think about hurting myself, too.
When I hear or read stories about failed attempts at suicide, I feel like crying. A lot of people that failed are so thankful that it didn't work, but a lot of them have brain damage or scars as a result.
I wish people knew how much they are loved, and even if you are really stressed or mad at the world, hurting yourself isn't the answer.
I have had quite a few friends that have cut because of stress or a family situation. I am so thankful that they have been honest with me about it, and stopped.
Here are some links to a couple really good songs about suicide/self harm. Sure, they aren't the happiest songs, but I really like them:
Loser by Three Doors Down
Ten Years Today by Bullet For My Valentine
Cemetery Drive by My Chemical Romance
My Chemical Romance is one of my favorite bands. Even if you're not a rocker (most people are surprised when they find out the music I listen to...) I really think you should listen to them sometime. They're amazing.
Here are some amazing pictures I found that really sum everything up:
I don't know why the words are cut off, but I'm sure you can tell what it's saying.
PEOPLE CARE.
Update: also posted on Blog For Joy! :)
I try to smile to everyone I see, too!
Pictures found on Google
I know that I'm just a person through a screen, but if anyone ever wants to talk and let it all out, I'm here for you.
Update: also posted on Blog For Joy! :)
this post is so inspiring Julliet.
ReplyDeleteSuicide is something that I hold dearly close to my heart as a close friend and work colleague of my mum's committed suicide last year. Plus there has been parents of students and pass pupils in my brother's school that committed suicide.
I think the rate of suicide is ridiculous! My mum always says that a problem never lasts forever, they always heal! What I don't understand is that why do these victims put their lives and their loved ones live at danger! It's dangerous.
This is such an excellent topic.
Thank you so much :) and I am so sorry for your loss! Ive never personally lost anyone from suicide, but I can imagine how awful that would be. :(
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Aww, thank you so much!
DeleteI didn't really know my mum's friend or the pass students, parents of my brother's school - but it was absolutely heartbreaking to find out and when my mum's friend died, she was devastated as he was suffering from depression.
Thank you so much for opening up about this topic as it has been ignored and you came out that took words out of my mouth. Thanks Julliet.
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You're very welcome, that must have been very devastating! :(
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Did you know that in the United States, if a person tells another person to go kill them self, and that person actually does it. Then the person who told the other person can face serious consequences (I believe they can be charged for manslaughter) if they find evidence.
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I have heard that, and it makes sense! I can't imagine the guilt that person would feel for causing a suicide!
Deletethank you for the award Stacy! I'll go check it out!
Juliet
It's good thing that you are delving into such dark topics.. I agree lot of these suicides happen because of loneliness... more than stress..people should talk things out. after all life is the mot precious thing we have.
ReplyDeleteI agree! Its sad so many young people are ending their life by choice. I wish they realized the effect it has on their families before they do it.
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that's very... i don't know how to say, important post. the problem is huge everywhere and it's a great relief for me to run into the blog where problems are discussed. thanks
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Thank you! :)
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This is such an important and real issue. Thanks for posting this.
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Thank you! :)
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i am so appreciative to see someone give voice to this taboo subject---thank you juliet<3
ReplyDeleteThanks so much! :)
DeleteJuliet
Such an important and too often ignored topic. That last quote is sadly true and I hope this post helps to remind us to treat others kindly and with understanding.
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I agree, everyone needs to remember that their words have a big impact on others.
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Hi Juliet, Well done for writing this and raising awareness, both suicide and self-harm are subjects I feel very strongly about for a number of reasons and I think that the more people talk about them (and any other mental health issues) and try and rid the stigma attached to them, the better.
ReplyDeleteTo add to your collection of songs have you heard Bleed Like Me by Garbage?
I just listened to it, i really like it, thank you for sharing! :)
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Thanks for bringing more awareness to this topic. I agree, no one should be bullied or made to feel like they are alone :(
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I agree, thanks for the comment! :)
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Hi love. Thanks for stopping by. The smile one is favorite! I smile at everyone - it can make their day! I know it has for me before. If I am feeling down or mad about something a smile from a stranger enlightens my heart.
ReplyDeleteI agree, its a great feeling!
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There should definitely be more awareness around this issue!
ReplyDeleteXo Jill
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I don't know what to comment, you already said what needs to be said, and I completely agree with you. Until last year I didn't understand why people commit suicide and self harm, but a few months ago, a Canadian girl commited suicide and she made a video three days before that, telling us her story and why she self harmed and wanted to die. I cried every time I watched it, and understood her, I thought "why do people need to bully others to feel good about themselves?". It's really sad. I really didn't want her, or anyone, to end their lives because of someone else's insecurity.
ReplyDeleteThats so sad :( its awful to hear stories like that! and i will never understand why people want to hurt others!
DeleteJuliet
Suicide is the completely opposite from being coward! i mean having the balls to take your own life!!!!! Sadly i've lost a friend this way.
ReplyDeleteI guess we'll never understand whats really going on in their heads.
No I dont think we will, and Im so sorry for your loss! :(
DeleteJuliet
The part about the man who jumped off the Golden Gate bridge really got me thinking. That's sad. I'm going to make it a point to smile at people now.
ReplyDeleteIm glad, I think its a really important thing to do!
DeleteJuliet
I hadn't read about the man who jumped off the bridge before--and his note. A small thing can make an enormous difference, can't it.
ReplyDeleteIt definitely can! I hadnt heard about it either, until I was researching this topic!
DeleteJuliet
I didn't know that the numbers were so alarmingly high - that is truly shocking.
ReplyDelete-Kati
It really is, very upsetting! :(
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That noote with if someone smiles at me I wont jump. goosh! my heart </3. I will now remember to smile more. I have known a few people who also tried doing those things to themselves and it upsets me but maybe when we let them feel that they are loved, they will stop hurting themselves.
ReplyDeletesometimes, just one smile can make a difference.. :')
ReplyDeleteI completely agree! I think everyone should remember to smile more!
DeleteJuliet
Wow! First of all, thanks for the post. And omg. I can't think of such high numbers, didn't know that! That note with the smile is really hard, I mean, is the world so unfriendly? Will smile more now, that's for sure!
ReplyDeleteI definitely think everyone should! Glad you enjoyed! :)
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I've nominated you for the Liebster Award. You can find the award rules and questions here, to answer in a post:
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thank you so much, I'll check it out! :)
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THis is a sad truth...suicide is such a terrible thing
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Hi Juliet, thank you very much for talking about this topic. It is a deeply upsetting one but really needs to be known by everyone; it is not okay to hurt other people or hurt yourself or give up on life because it hurts too much.
ReplyDeleteI am definitely going to put "smile at people" on my New Leaf list (it's this whole idea that this Lent I am going to be a better person)
Sending a virtual smile your way!
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I completely agree, everyone needs to smile at others, it can make someone's day!
Deletethanks for visiting!
Juliet